Faith Without a Safety Net – A Journey from Illusion to Truth

by Joseph | Feb 15, 2025 | Sharing

“Trust in the LORD with all your heart and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight.” – Proverbs 3:5-6

This Scripture in Proverbs is one of my favorites… Like many people, I’ve read it, reflected on it, and thought I understood it. I really did. Until recently, when God lovingly stripped away my illusions…

Let me share something profound that’s transforming my entire understanding of faith.

I had left a secure financial position, proudly telling everyone I was “stepping out in faith.” My heart was sincere, but my actions? Well, that’s where this story gets interesting – and maybe a bit convicting.

Like those Isaiah warned about who “relied on horses and trusted in chariots” (Isaiah 31:1), I had my own modern-day backup cavalry: retirement plans, financial safety nets, carefully crafted contingency plans. I thought I was being wise. Responsible. Strategic.

Then, in one breath-taking moment, everything changed. Every safety net? Gone. Every backup plan? Shattered. Every security blanket? Stripped away.

But here’s where the beauty begins…

In the midst of what felt like chaos, I discovered something magnificent. Like Peter stepping out of that boat (Matthew 14:29), I found myself in a position where there was nothing – absolutely nothing – between me and God’s faithfulness.

You see, I had been living what I now call “safety net spirituality.” Like Abraham being called to leave his homeland, I thought I was following God’s call. But unlike Abraham who “went, as the LORD had told him” (Genesis 12:4), I had been hedging my bets.

And now? Now I’m experiencing what real faith feels like. Not the comfortable, padded faith I had before, but the kind that makes your heart race and your spirit soar. The kind that actually gives God room to show up in spectacular ways.

This isn’t just about losing backup plans – it’s about gaining something far more precious: authentic trust in a faithful God. It’s about discovering that when Jesus said “No one can serve two masters” (Matthew 6:24), He was offering us freedom, not restriction.

You want to know the most amazing part? As each safety net has fallen away, I’ve found something solid underneath – not the shifting sands of my own planning, but the unshakeable foundation of God’s faithfulness.

I’m learning that true faith isn’t the absence of fear – it’s the presence of trust even when fear is screaming in your ear. It’s not about being reckless; it’s about being real with God and ourselves about where we’re placing our trust.

And here’s what I want to share with you: There’s an indescribable peace that comes when you finally stop trying to be your own backup plan. When you realize that maybe, just maybe, God allowed your safety nets to fall so you could experience His catching arms.

This journey isn’t over. Every day brings new opportunities to choose trust over safety, faith over fear. But now I know – really know – what it means to trust with ALL my heart, not just the parts that don’t have a backup plan.

So I ask you, friend: What safety nets are you clinging to? What would it look like to trust God so completely that you don’t need Plan B?

But here’s the real question that’s been haunting me – the one that changed everything:

Is faith really faith if you’re always developing a backup plan?

After everything I’ve experienced, after watching every safety net dissolve and finding God’s faithfulness even stronger underneath, I can tell you with absolute certainty – no, it’s not.

Real faith, the kind that moves mountains and transforms lives, doesn’t need a Plan B. Because genuine faith understands that God’s Plan A is greater than all our backup plans combined.

So maybe it’s time to let go of those safety nets. Not because it’s easy, but because it’s freeing. Because true faith isn’t faith until it’s all we’re holding onto.

And trust me – when you finally release those backup plans, you’ll discover what I’m learning every day: God is far more faithful than any safety net we could ever design.

Finding Freedom in God’s Definition

by Joseph | Feb 14, 2025 | Sharing

“The Lord was with Joseph so that he prospered, and he lived in the house of his Egyptian master.” – Genesis 39:2

How often do we find ourselves trapped in prisons not made of stone? Joseph’s story echoes through time, speaking to every heart that has felt bound by others’ expectations, limited by circumstances, or defined by roles we didn’t choose. Like many of us, Joseph’s journey from favored son to slave to prisoner to prince wasn’t a straight path to freedom – it was a winding road of discovering who he truly was in God’s eyes.

Consider Joseph in Potiphar’s house. Once the beloved son wearing a coat of many colors, he now wore the garments of a slave. From the pit his brothers threw him in to the foreign land where he served, Joseph could have lost himself in others’ definitions of who he was. A slave. A foreigner. A servant. Yet scripture tells us something remarkable: “The Lord was with Joseph.” (Genesis 39:2)

Even in bondage, Joseph’s spirit remained free enough to excel, to serve with excellence, to maintain his integrity. When tempted by Potiphar’s wife, he remained true to his God-given identity rather than succumbing to others’ expectations or desires. “How then could I do such a wicked thing and sin against God?” (Genesis 39:9)

But freedom of spirit doesn’t mean freedom from trials. Joseph found himself thrown into prison on false charges, adding physical chains to the emotional ones he already bore. Yet even there, scripture notes, “But while Joseph was there in the prison, the Lord was with him; he showed him kindness and granted him favor in the eyes of the prison warden.” (Genesis 39:20-21)

Like Joseph, we often find ourselves in situations where we feel bound by obligations, expectations, and the constant pressure to provide and perform. We might feel like we’re merely existing, going through motions, living up to others’ definitions of who we should be. The weight of being everything to everyone can feel as confining as prison walls.

Yet Joseph’s story teaches us a profound truth: our circumstances don’t define us – God does. Even in prison, Joseph remained attuned to God’s voice, interpreting dreams and serving others. He didn’t let his chains – physical or metaphorical – silence his gift or dampen his spirit. “Do not interpretations belong to God?” (Genesis 40:8)

When Joseph finally stood before Pharaoh, it wasn’t his prison identity that spoke – it was his God-given spirit. “I cannot do it,” Joseph replied to Pharaoh, “but God will give Pharaoh the answer he desires.” (Genesis 41:16) In this moment, Joseph demonstrated complete freedom from others’ definitions, standing confidently in who God made him to be.

The journey from pit to palace wasn’t just about physical elevation – it was about Joseph maintaining his true identity regardless of circumstances. When he finally revealed himself to his brothers, he spoke from a place of spiritual freedom: “You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good to accomplish what is now being done, the saving of many lives.” (Genesis 50:20)

Like Joseph, we are called to find our definition not in our circumstances, obligations, or others’ expectations, but in God’s purpose for our lives. “For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.” (Ephesians 2:10)

The freedom to sing, pray, and live authentically doesn’t come from the absence of responsibilities – Joseph had more responsibilities as Egypt’s governor than he ever had as a slave. True freedom comes from knowing whose we are, regardless of where we are. It’s about finding our identity in God’s definition of us, not in the roles others assign.

Prayer: Father, like Joseph, help me find my true identity in You, not in the expectations and definitions others place upon me. Give me the courage to let my spirit soar even when circumstances feel confining. Help me remember that You are with me, just as You were with Joseph, and that Your definition of me supersedes all earthly demands. Grant me the wisdom to fulfill my responsibilities while maintaining the freedom of spirit that comes from knowing I am Yours. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Choosing Your Circle Wisely: A Lesson from Solomon’s Journey

by Joseph | Jan 24, 2025 | Sharing

Few stories in Scripture illustrate the profound impact of our associations more powerfully than that of King Solomon. Here was a man who began with extraordinary wisdom, so much so that “men came from all peoples to hear the wisdom of Solomon, from all the kings of the earth who had heard of his wisdom” (1 Kings 4:34, NAS). Yet even Solomon, the wisest man who ever lived, eventually fell prey to the influence of those he surrounded himself with.

“As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another” (Proverbs 27:17, NAS). Ironically, Solomon himself wrote these words, yet his life would become a cautionary tale about the transformative power of our associations. In his early years, surrounded by godly advisors and focused on building the temple, Solomon’s wisdom flourished. But as he accumulated foreign wives who “turned his heart away after other gods” (1 Kings 11:4, NAS), even his legendary wisdom couldn’t withstand the daily influence of those who pulled him away from truth.

This profound lesson becomes especially relevant as we consider our own journey of preparedness. In a world that often mocks readiness and dismisses careful planning, the people we surround ourselves with can either strengthen our resolve or slowly erode our determination. Solomon’s story teaches us that no amount of knowledge or wisdom can compensate for the subtle influence of those closest to us.

Consider the contrast in Solomon’s life. Early in his reign, when he surrounded himself with those who supported his divine purpose, he accomplished the magnificent task of building the temple. His wisdom attracted seekers of truth from across the nations. But later, when he allowed his inner circle to be dominated by those with different values and priorities, even the wisest man in history found his judgment compromised.

This pattern repeats throughout Scripture. When we look at successful preparation, we rarely find lone wolves. Moses had Aaron and Hur to hold up his arms during battle (Exodus 17:12). David had his mighty men. Even Jesus, in His earthly ministry, gathered twelve disciples around Him. The lesson is clear: significant preparation and purpose require a supportive community, but that community must be chosen with wisdom.

Let me share three essential principles for building a positive circle of preparation:

1. Guard Your Inner Circle Solomon’s decline began not with outright rebellion but with gradual compromise in his closest relationships. “Do not be deceived: ‘Bad company corrupts good morals'” (1 Corinthians 15:33, NAS). In your preparation journey, be intentional about who has the closest access to your heart and mind.
2. Seek Those Who Strengthen Your Convictions Early in his reign, Solomon surrounded himself with those who supported his mission to build the temple. These relationships reinforced his godly purpose rather than undermining it. “The one who walks with wise men will be wise” (Proverbs 13:20, NAS). Look for people whose presence strengthens your commitment to preparation and wisdom.
3. Build Relationships Around Shared Values Solomon’s foreign wives brought their gods with them, creating competing values within his own household. In your preparation community, seek those who share your core values and understanding of the times. “Can two walk together unless they are agreed?” (Amos 3:3, NAS).

The practical application of these principles requires discernment and courage:

1. Evaluate Current Influences Take an honest inventory of your current associations. Are they strengthening or weakening your preparation efforts? Are they building up your resolve or eroding it?
2. Make Necessary Adjustments Sometimes, like Solomon should have done, we need to lovingly but firmly adjust the level of influence certain people have in our lives. This isn’t about rejection but about wise boundaries.
3. Actively Seek Positive Connections Look for those who demonstrate wisdom in preparation without panic, who approach readiness with hope rather than fear, who balance practical action with spiritual insight.

Remember, Solomon’s decline didn’t happen overnight. It was the gradual result of daily influences that slowly pulled him away from his original wisdom and purpose. Similarly, our preparation efforts can be gradually strengthened or weakened by those we spend time with.

The beauty of building a positive preparation circle is that it creates mutual support. When one person’s strength fails, others can step in. When one person’s resources run low, others can share. When one person’s wisdom is challenged, others can provide perspective. “Two are better than one because they have a good return for their labor. For if either of them falls, the one will lift up his companion” (Ecclesiastes 4:9-10, NAS).

As you continue your journey of preparation, let Solomon’s story inspire you to choose your associations wisely. Are they strengthening your resolve or weakening it? Are they contributing wisdom or spreading fear? Are they encouraging action or promoting paralysis?

Remember that even the wisest among us need the support and accountability of like-minded companions. Solomon’s story isn’t just a warning about negative influences; it’s a call to actively seek and maintain relationships that strengthen our commitment to wisdom and preparation.

“Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken” (Ecclesiastes 4:12, NAS). Let this ancient wisdom, written by Solomon himself in better days, guide you as you build your circle of preparation, knowing that in the right community, we find strength, wisdom, and hope for the journey ahead.

Standing Firm When Your Preparation Seems Foolish

by Joseph | Jan 22, 2025 | Sharing

Have you ever felt that deep, unsettling loneliness that comes when you’re following a call to prepare, but those around you just can’t see what you see? I’m reminded of Noah, who must have felt this acutely as he built an ark on dry land, enduring years of mockery while constructing a massive vessel for a flood no one believed would come. “By faith Noah, being warned by God about things not yet seen, in reverence prepared an ark for the salvation of his household” (Hebrews 11:7, NAS). His story speaks deeply to those of us who feel compelled to prepare for things others can’t yet see.

I often wonder how Joseph felt in those early days, when he shared his insights about the future while still wearing a shepherd’s cloak. His brothers’ sneering response, “Here comes this dreamer!” (Genesis 37:19, NAS), must have cut deep into his young heart. Yet something within him knew – he had to stay true to what he understood was coming, even when it made him look foolish.

Perhaps you’re there right now. Maybe you’re sensing approaching storms and beginning preparations that seem excessive or unnecessary to others. Whether you’re building spiritual fortifications, developing practical preparations, or following a conviction that seems bizarre to those around you, you’re not alone in this journey. The path of preparation often looks like madness to outside observers.

Let me share three essential anchors that can help us stand firm when our preparations make us look foolish:

1. Root Yourself in Quiet Confidence When others question your sanity or wisdom, remember that meaningful preparation often flows from deep conviction rather than popular opinion. Think about Jeremiah, who purchased land while Jerusalem was under siege – an act that seemed absolutely crazy to everyone watching (Jeremiah 32:6-15). Yet his action flowed from a quiet confidence in what he knew to be true.

“Each person must be fully convinced in his own mind” (Romans 14:5, NAS). This isn’t about stubbornness or pride; it’s about that settled peace that comes from careful consideration and conscience. When doubts creep in (and they will), return to that initial conviction that started you on this journey.

1. Find Strength in Future Focus One of the most powerful ways to stand firm is to keep your eyes fixed on what lies ahead rather than on current criticism. Paul captured this beautifully when he wrote, “While we look not at the things which are seen, but at the things which are not seen; for the things which are seen are temporal, but the things which are not seen are eternal” (2 Corinthians 4:18, NAS).

Consider how Noah must have focused on the coming rain rather than the daily ridicule. Each plank he nailed, every seam he sealed, was an act of faith in what he understood was coming. When people question your preparations, let their skepticism remind you of why you started preparing in the first place.

1. Build a Foundation of Wisdom and Discernment Standing firm requires more than just determination – it requires wisdom. “But if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all generously and without reproach” (James 1:5, NAS). This means:

• Regularly examining your motives and methods
• Staying open to guidance and correction
• Maintaining balance in your preparation efforts
• Being willing to adjust your approach while staying true to your core conviction

In practice, this might look like developing skills others consider irrelevant, storing resources when abundance seems endless, or building spiritual disciplines in a pleasure-seeking culture. Whatever form your preparation takes, remember that you’re in good company. History is filled with people who looked foolish until time proved them wise.

I’m particularly moved by how Joseph handled his time of preparation. Through slavery and imprisonment, he didn’t just wait passively – he developed skills and wisdom that would later save nations. While others saw a prisoner, he was becoming a leader. While they saw punishment, he was in preparation.

The reality is, meaningful preparation often looks like destruction to outside observers. When you’re being positioned for future purpose, the process may appear as dismantling rather than construction. Just as a sculptor must remove excess stone to reveal the masterpiece within, thorough preparation often involves stripping away what others consider essential.

Remember, Noah wasn’t crazy; he was prepared. Jeremiah wasn’t foolish; he was forward-thinking. Joseph wasn’t delusional; he was discerning. Your commitment to preparation, regardless of how it appears to others, positions you to help both yourself and others in times of need.

Take heart in knowing that the apparent madness of your preparation may become a badge of honor rather than a source of shame. Today’s foolishness may be tomorrow’s wisdom, and current ridicule may be preparing the way for future provision. Stand firm in your conviction, maintain your focus in preparation, and let time validate your foresight.

“But the path of the righteous is like the light of dawn, that shines brighter and brighter until the full day” (Proverbs 4:18, NAS). Keep walking your path of preparation, dear friend. The dawn will break, and your preparation will prove its worth.